February 2014
Living Without Regret
Regretting choices we’ve made can steal our spiritual thunder. The good news is that regret can be turned into a positive force for change. Regret is the perfect mirror to show us what we did wrong – in what ways our actions went against our core values. And when we realise what we want to change from the past, we can use that information to behave more appropriately in the future. Regret is all about choices. Sometimes we make the wrong choice. At other times we make no choice at all. In either instance, the results are negative because our core values are being ignored. Regret is our core values nudging us to be heard. Respecting the past and not regretting it is equally as important as respecting the future and not fretting about it. When we regret our past actions, or when we deny responsibility for them, or the outcome of them, we are suffering. When we blame someone else for our woes, like a boomerang the hurt flies back to us. While we are regretting and blaming and denying what has been done, we are trapped in the eternal circle of suffering. Let go of blame, and denial. Realise that everyone feels pain, and take some time to lessen, by however small a portion, the suffering of another. It is difficult for us to move on in life. We believe it is because we would be leaving things behind. Sometimes we feel it would be selfish and we feel guilty, because we were not able to “fix†things enough to bring them along on our new journey. We stay way to long in one place, because it feels safe. We know what is going to happen and even though it may be unpleasant, we know the ending and that brings a false sense of comfort. It is difficult to move out of our comfort zone. That fear to move out of our comfort zone is what keeps us regretting our past, as it keeps us living it over and over again. "One of the greatest spiritual acts of love is to walk away from recrimination and remorse and to accept, in its place, love and your own self-worth.†Meredith Young-Sowers
Written By Beverley ( Intuitive | Clairvoyant | Healer )
Getting Advice From The Tarot
The tarot will open a window to "view†the energy that you are projecting into your world and give a snapshot of the likely circumstances, which are in the process of unfolding. These are possible outcomes, not necessarily hard and fast predictions. Because I myself totally trust this process, I know that the cards will come out according to what the client needs to see. I know it’s the client’s energy which is creating the outcome – including the layout of the cards. I keep my energy still and remain neutral to allow this. When you decide to have a reading, always remember that your future is designed by you and created by your energy field – not by any outside force. It’s your energy that dictates which cards come out of the pack. Be aware that the environment in which your reading takes place can influence the reading. Take the best steps possible to ensure you feel comfortable and calm and can remain open to allow the cards to present to you a meaningful message. The same careful consideration applies for choosing a reader – be sure you feel they are right for you. Most people will have an intuition and be drawn to certain readers, either by their appearance, their age, sex and general body language. If an appointment is made by phone then your intuition will work just as well by listening to the reader’s voice. And remember: Be clear and honest with yourself about what you are looking for through a reading. Are you wishing to communicate with spirit world? Are you looking for clarity about a situation you feel blocked over? Are you interested in knowing what options are opening up for you in your future? The important thing to keep in mind is that tarot readings will not show you the absolute outcome of any situation. It simply shows you the most probable future based on your current path. This is what makes Tarot an amazing tool. It not only shows you what the future currently holds but, if you have a good reader, it can show you how to change your path if you don’t like what the tarot has revealed to you. Blessings to you, Claudia x
Written By Claudia ( Tarot Reader | Counsellor | Email Reader )
Love And Spirituality
When we are in love, every part of life shines a little brighter. Our bodies and minds tingle with energy. There can be no love without the selflessness of an evolved spirit and no spirituality, that is not based on love. If your love is pure and true, and this is "the one," surely you will just "know" in some higher spiritual way, won't you? Not necessarily. Just as with any spiritual matter, you need guidance to ensure you are not following a path of deception. We naturally and effortlessly maintain a positive relationship when we first fall in love. Later, as our positive orientation becomes less consistent and our focus becomes less constant over time, we gradually lose that feeling we associate with being "in love." What happened? We no longer have such a strong, positive psychic connection with the other person. Training is needed in order to love properly; and to be able to give happiness and joy, you must practice deep looking directed toward the person you love. Because if you do not understand this person, you cannot love properly. Understanding is the essence of love. We don't have control over those old habits unless we take control. What must we do in order to understand a person? We must have time; we must practice looking deeply into this person. We must be there, attentive; we must observe, we must look deeply. And the fruit of this looking deeply is called understanding. Love is a true thing if it is made up of a substance called understanding. Contemplating a beloved person, you can create a psychic connection and strengthen your connection. True love comes full circle when it touches you both on a spiritual level and connects you to each other soul to soul. Love is a spiritual fulfilment! Blessings, Claudia x
