December 2016
Freedom
Inner guidance is a wonderful gift, but without a little effort from our part, it may take a while to develop it and understand how important it is to connect with our own self. I think it is important to know that we all have the capacity to get in touch with our inner source of wisdom. We live our life in a way that it can be so busy at times, and we simply do not pay attention to the inner voice that we all have. In our busy schedule, it is not easy to nurture the light and love within us and bring it into the physical reality in which we live, so we become disconnected to our own self. When we nurture our soul, a greater purpose reveal itself, and we can free ourselves from judgment to listen to our inner voice. Spiritual Guidance is a self discovery and a beautiful opportunity to experience a deeper layer of life, it gives us the opportunity to develop the precious gift of intuition, that can guide us and allow us to see clearly what is true and what is not. I often turn to my inner light to find the peace, forgiveness and strength to deal with life ups and downs. It is like an infinite source of energy. I can truly say that only connecting with my inner source of spiritual wisdom I was able to release any sorrow, resentment or grief to continue my journey. Spiritual light give us the gift to move forward freely. It shows us that we are able to detach ourselves from any kind of negativity, and finally, it helps us to understand our life’s purpose.
Written By Beverley ( Intuitive | Clairvoyant | Healer )
Aries
Aries is one of the most fascinating and interesting signs of the zodiac! It’s the first sign of the zodiac, and is full of energy and light. If you were born when the sun was in Aries, you were born to open paths, unravel mysteries and perform the most impossible dreams. An Aries native does not understand the meaning of the word 'no' and draws attention to his or her boldness. The Aries native is usually stubborn and, sometimes, even selfish. For thinking that he or she is capable of anything, they tend to act impulsively and in a thoughtless manner. When they make a mistake, they do not look back at it long. They believe, in fact, making mistakes are only a consequence of their lifestyle. When we talk about those born under this zodiac sign, we are talking about a born leader! Aries individuals are lively, energetic and daring. They crave adventure, and love to travel the world. They also have a powerful love nature and a strong sexual drive. Since they are always looking for excitement and adventure, they are often the ones who’d try out newer things in life. Mars is the planetary ruler of Aries, symbolising energy, impulse, action, will, wanting, desire and sex. An Aries native loves a challenge! They are very independent and concerned about his or her own ambition and goals. They have an enviable energy that sometimes can lead them to be aggressive, restless, argumentative, stubborn. If you are in a relationship with someone born under this sign, be aware that they could be easily offended and, when offended, it's hard to make peace with them. If an Aries begins to believe in a good cause, they fight tirelessly to promote it. You will never find an Aries low on energy levels. Aries individuals are unafraid to explore the unknown. People admire their independence and freedom of expression in everything they do. Represented by the ram, they are always behaving like a fierce and hungry animal, that likes to attack everything and everyone, as a way to defend themselves. Their biggest goal in life is to enjoy every minute as if it were their last!
Written By Beverley ( Intuitive | Clairvoyant | Healer )
Ectoplasm
Do you remember Ghostbusters and the slimy the ghost who left ectoplasm all over the team? Or maybe you have seen the photographs of Victorian mediums with white stuff coming from their mouths. It all seems a bit farfetched to be honest, what exactly is ectoplasm and does it exist? Ectoplasm is believed to be a gauze-like substance that came from various places on the medium's body and spirits would drape this substance over themselves so we could see them and an interact with them. For some mediums ectoplasm would start out as a clear and viscous substance that would darken and harden as the spiritual energy increased. Some mediums even claimed it had an odour, like ozone but most also stated it could not form in fully light conditions as if would disintegrate. The mediums believed ectoplasm was formed when the medium and the ghost’s energy were equal and they ‘met’. The spirit would use the mediums skin and energy to materialise and communicate with the others in the circle. There was another theory that the ectoplasm came from the spirit itself and this was its life force coming from its dimension to ours. The objects and shapes produced by ectoplasm called a pseudopod, and could often move like a real arm or hand. They could hold things, pick stuff up, and shove things around. They even shook the hands of those people taking part in the séance. Whatever was produced through ectoplasm was cold to the touch and often damp. There were famous witnesses to the production of ectoplasm like Arthur Conan Doyle and Harry Houdini, one believed and one did not. There were a variety of frauds using cheesecloth, rubber gloves, muslin, tissues and magazine cut-outs. These were well publicized and by the 1930’s this kind of meduimship had almost died out. Today it is hard to find any evidence of mediums using ectoplasm, maybe they were fake or that powerful physical mediumship has died out. If you were to do a search for pictures of ectoplasm of today you will find ectoplasm has been replaced with fog like substances and orbs.
Written By Beverley ( Intuitive | Clairvoyant | Healer )
August 2016
Letting Go Of Expectations
I'm In Love We could be looking towards the heavens for a miracle or divine intervention to make things work out when we are at the crossroads of realizing we may not achieve the true love we envisioned with another; this can be especially true if a lover has pulled away and you are left wondering where you and your relationship stand. Rarely is this a pleasant location to land our heart. Love can have different ideals for different people. And as varied as the ideals are reasons we may need to be separated from someone we love. Who hasn't bemoaned the realization of understanding the person we love turned out not to be the person we thought they were. And the guilt and the self-punishment we can apply to berate ourselves. Was it something I did not see? Was it something I did? What was it? Sometimes it is our reluctance to believe another person could be so weak in their personality and character that makes us feel we are standing still, waiting - which we are. We often continue hoping our lover will change their approach and attitude. It is their lack of change that often spurns on our reason to finally examine a relationship and what we need to do about it if the conclusion is not one that respects and values us. One of the divine dilemmas of being intelligent, feeling individuals is our ability to make decisions. At various points of maturity in our lives, we may make choices based on pure attraction and animal instinct or experience may have taught us other characteristics and insights need to come into our decision making. In the Tarot deck there are several cards that ask us to take an honest assessment of our true feelings and those of another - and they teach us value and respect are at the core of our truest loves. Often in a Tarot reading a client will have the encounter of the Four of Cups when they are seeking answers for a lover not connecting any longer. Fours refer to benefit and in regards to the Cups you receive the benefit of a review of the relationship. The journey of the Cups begins with an upsurge of emotional energy and desire to connect, on to feeling in-love and then we celebrate the start of relationship and now, we arrive at a true evaluation of your love. This is an interesting place for some because it requires an honest, hard look of the good and the bad - to weigh out your next move. People are human. They lie, they cheat, and all sorts of things that do not value and respect us. This is part of learning what true love really is. I have learned through many Tarot readings that encounter this card, if there is something gnawing at your internal meter of doubt and discontent - this is the time to bring the issues out to yourself. If we do not acknowledge these thoughts to ourselves, they will only dig-in deeper and drive up our suspicion and feelings of betrayal. If you have conducted this exercise be proud and strong in your decision, not weak and punishing. We also cannot move completely forward in love if we are deceiving and undervaluing ourselves. Regardless of your love outcome there is something to be learned by the experience - and it is about you! That it is why it is important to focus on what is truly - and that is the key word: truly - best for you. By reconnecting with your confidence within - you will be making your choices with a balanced head and heart away from fear and punishing thoughts! The deeper meaning of this quest is to find in another someone we can fully give our spirit and soul to; where we can weather the storms and enjoy the happy moments too. When we truly feel this in another we connect with the part of us that is capable of giving and receiving unconditional love.
Written By Laura ( Tarot Reader | Life Coach | Counsellor )
July 2016
Being A Carer
Finding the Balance in Life When Caring for Someone Who is Sick Are you someone who is trying to balance caring for parents or children who may have challenges while working to provide for your loved ones? Or maybe you are someone who voluntarily needed to place their life on hold while you navigate these challenges? Maybe you had to move-in or move others into your home? These what-if's may differ in their scenarios from each other but both examples highlight the need to find and maintain balance and it starts with recognizing the need to find the equaling of the scales in our lives. Whatever the reasons you feel life is pulling on you - you must take care of self first. Without you, whatever balance you are trying to maintain will suddenly topple over in one direction potentially causing a whole set of new issues. I know we can feel guilty or selfish when we take time for ourselves, but neither of these emotions charge our energy and attitude like some me time can. Whether it is taking time out for meditation, a walk or forbid - a night out or meal with your mates - we need to schedule the time. Just like setting a Doctor's visit for your mum, you need to do the same for you. We can easily feel overwhelmed because of responsibilities from such daily time consuming tasks as taking care of someone. Feeling overwhelmed leads to thoughts of being overpowered and entrapped in our emotions and situations. No matter what the circumstances that have led to this conclusion, changing the conversation you have with your self can help change your outcome from one of entrapment to one of empowerment. When we find the wherewithal to think differently about ourselves and then our situation, we can make positive progress to our goals. It is all up to you. Traveling through the journey of the life is never easy because we encounter people and situations that help us develop our individual identity, character and thoughts. At times these tests can leave us emotionally, mentally and spiritually drained, and unsure of our next moves. We also may have played a role in delaying our next moves because we did not want to look at people and situations as they truly are for fear of hurting another or ourselves. You may even be feeling paralyzed from your indecision. Even when we feel like we have nothing to contribute, too exhausted to try any longer it is at this time we need to recognize we have to fill our head with only positive and constructive thoughts. When we feel too tired and overwhelmed to try something new - it is at this time we must get out of our rut and apply our energy to new growth in our lives. It is through these types of encounters that make us stronger in our individual spirit and intellect. So remember who you are, what you have accomplished and where you can go! One of the Key gals of the Tarot Deck is Temperance, an important female figure of the Major Arcana Tarot. This wise woman reminds you that all of us have to meet this feature of life, where we need to schedule time for ourselves to create and plan. This important experience of catering to all the aspects of our demanding life starts with taking care of our imaginative and inspiring selves. What is also so cool about Temperance, her imagery is one of reincarnation. All our pasts can become whole again - if we choose to believe in her rejuvenating influence. Not surprisingly, many may find a Patience Meditation useful when confronted with the lessons of our gal Temperance. Her message is learning how to maintain relationship. We often feel we are being tested in how to sustain the flow of feelings to keep the scales balanced in our life. She reminds us not to drain our energy nor pause in pursuing our dreams because we can do it all if we do so with a positive and constructive attitude. Focusing on self so you can achieve balance is part of her lesson. Many of you may be dealing with friends and family who you are trying to maintain an emotional balance in a relationship that you know needs to go by the wayside Temperance has some wise words for you. This lady brings us to the encounter of realizing a balanced heart. Understanding the difference between the drivers of feelings versus emotional reaction is her domain. In many of the older versions of Tarot she is called The Angel of Time and encourages the reader to spread their spiritual wings. And if you need to do this, I suggest you do so. You may be hoping you can maintain a status quo of emotional flow; not upsetting the applecart, but Temperance's lesson points out you cannot stay comfortable within the land of Temperance forever, something will need to give, eventually making you to take a stand and move forward. Her advice is simple instead of focusing on the emotional reaction that could occur find the solution that allows you to move forward while others can still maintain a sense of dignity by allowing the change to happen. Sometimes we get so concerned with the perceived confrontation that could occur, or feel we need to speak a certain truth - but Temperance tells us - your sanity and safety are what is most important. There are ways to deliver news that get the results you want, while allowing another to walk away with a head held high - as long as they walk away! So many of us can get stuck in serving only one side of the scales - and it usually is not the one tilted in our direction. I understand the dynamics that involve caring for loved ones; especially our elderly members and I applaud you if you are one of these individuals! I also understand how we can feel we have no me time or even a life in some cases and it is here I again must stress how you must take care of yourself. The universe has handed us a demanding and fulfilling task if we choose to look at both sides honestly - but the universe choose you and not another and we know the universe delivers on good karma! So not only hang in there but go have some you time too - this is the balance.
Written By Laura ( Tarot Reader | Life Coach | Counsellor )
June 2016
After Pregnancy
The glow of a pregnant woman brings joy to both men and women. But that glow can quickly fade after the baby is born if the new mother does not take care of her physical and emotional needs. A baby can bring great joy but it also brings a change in lifestyle. Many mothers are not prepared in their mind for the night time feedings and loss of sleep which can make one cranky and listless. If one has the help of a relative that's great. Let them take on some of the night hours. If it is affordable, hire someone for two weeks to help out and give the mom a break. Especially if their are older children involved. The mom needs rest to keep her going just as much as the baby. There is also nothing wrong with mom telling friends and relatives she is tired. Maybe one will volunteer to take the older children for a day or two. Whatever your situation make sure you take the time to close the curtains, turn off your phone and for a few hours bond with your new child by snuggling together and when sleepy, both taking a nap. If you do not have older children running around that you have to care for, make sure you sleep when the baby sleeps. Do not let others sway you to do otherwise. This one thing will keep your outlook cheerful as some mothers can sink into a listless state and even start resenting the baby and her husband. There is nothing wrong with you if you do! Lack of sleep can do that to a person. Hopefully all husbands are now helping instead of sitting and expecting everything to be as before. It is not. Let him get his own meal. There is plenty of takeout. If house is messy, hand him the vacuum. Let him take over with the older kids. Above all, the mom must be reassured she still matters. Emotions can also play havoc at this time. Make sure you take some personal time too if you can. Try not to let the what if's or buts stop you from eating well, getting back to exercise and especially taking care of the outside you. A manicure/pedicure, a new haircut is a small personal gesture you can show yourself! In Tarot the Death card represents our transition from one life to another. We can even mourn our past existence till we settle into our new one. No worries here. This is natural and normal. Young girls and women who have chosen to be single mothers should be honored as any other mother. Taking care of a baby is hard enough without having to go to school or a job. Hopefully they will have family or friends or boyfriend to help them out as studies have shown with this double pressure resentment can set in quickly here as well and the mom will wonder why she feels this way, that it is not natural. But it is. All mothers need rest and reassurance after pregnancy. Otherwise lethargy can set in. With some, this is a medical issue and needs treatment. With others, it is tiredness. If anyone is concerned and feelings of resentment, etc. do not dissipate in a reasonable amount of time, a medical person should be consulted. All mothers, from the earliest on, should be applauded for bringing life into this world. And if you are a friend or relative of such a wonder rejoice, celebrate and support your gifts!
Written By Laura ( Tarot Reader | Life Coach | Counsellor )
May 2016
Letting Go Of Expectations
Our ability to develop and maintain healthy relationships with others is essential to live a satisfying life. I believe that one of the greatest causes of discontent in our lives is often the result of having a lot of unreal expectations when it comes to our relationships. When we feel that a person has let us down or disappointed us, the real reason behind our frustration is that that person is not living up to our expectations. Life can be unfair at times, and it can be filled with unforeseen contingencies. At some point, the experience of disappointment teaches us all to manage expectations more carefully. When we adjust our expectations, we are able to reduce the amount of frustration and negative emotions. Being emotionally aware can save us a lot of trouble by preparing ourselves for different outcomes, in order to stay emotionally and mentally healthy. There are many things that we can do to accept people and situations as they are, and increase our happiness. We need to understand our feelings in order to channel different emotions, and better deal with them. it is impossible to fix what we can’t understand. Our personal happiness is directly related to how we choose to respond to frustration. Ask yourself if your expectations are realistic, and avoid setting high expectations to yourself and others. Realising that you could change your perspective in order to improve our mental health, can change your life. If you catch yourself getting frustrated, try to realise that imperfection is simply the nature of being part of the human species. Visualise different outcomes and embrace them. Focus on something concrete and achievable, and always strive for what really can be done, instead of things that are out of your control. Stop trying to please everyone, and remember that disappointment is normal when you set goals beyond achieving. Being realistic is about expecting people to disappoint you, because all humans make mistakes. You also need to stop giving others the power to hurt your feelings. Expect others to let you down, to make mistakes, and to disappoint you now and then, and keep in mind that you are going to disappoint others too, whatever you do, many people will dislike you. When you decide to let go of expectations you need to be compassionate with others and with yourself. Acceptance allow you to increase your self knowledge and reach a stage, where you can change and improve your relationships. It brings you the opportunity to start fresh, and consider all possibilities. Finding a hobby or meditating is a wonderful way to practice mindfulness and focus on things you enjoy, instead of negative emotions. If you find yourself reflecting on unmet expectations, turn your energy to recognising all the things that are positive about your situation or the circumstances. Putting your focus on something positive and nurturing your spiritual side, can increase your emotional awareness, and lower your anxiety levels and expectations. You can only find inner peace when you let go of any expectation of perfection. Positivity is a habit, and choosing to shift your focus to better things helps you to avoid dwelling on the wrong things, and move forward. Learning to adjust your perspective and constant reminding yourself that you can not make people act according to your expectations, is a very good way to feel more in control of your emotions. It took me some time to realise that I can try to give advice, encourage, and love people, but I won't change them or cause them to do things for me, simply because I think they owe me the same respect and consideration I have for them. Letting go of my expectations required me to practice self-awareness and acceptance, it was about accepting others as they are, and understanding that just because I have set all sorts of expectations for myself, it does not mean I can expect other people to act the same way I would do. We all have a choice to either let go of our expectations, and our need to see things from our perspective, or accept something or someone as they are. Working on communicating with others about your expectations, and also setting realistic goals for yourself will help you to avoid holding grudges and dwelling on your imperfections and others' imperfections. Expectations can plague your daily life, causing you to be stressed, irritable, disappointed. Forgiving yourself and others can minimise the negativity, and open a window in your heart for life energy to begin to flow in and out again. Don’t ruin a special occasion thinking about the attention you didn’t receive, don’t focus on the negative aspects of any situation, just try to find joy and gratitude in the present moment. Think about how abundant the present moment actually is, and remember that when we are grateful about what is happening in our lives, we have less room to think about what isn’t happening. Gratitude has a way of awakening us to the present moment, allowing us to focus on what really matters: our happiness. When we prioritise our well-being, it is easier to understand that letting go of our expectations is not about giving up something: it’s about making the most of our lives and honouring our true selves.
Written By Claudia ( Tarot Reader | Counsellor | Email Reader )
Deciding To Move On.
Yikes! It is never easy to come to a decision to move on from a marriage, relationship, career even an addiction but so many of you are facing such decisions and I am here to encourage you along and give you the spiritual proverbial slap to get you started if need be. Often we can be thinking our past experience will be the one waiting for us in our future - this statement could not be further from the truth! Anything that gets attached to our heart or at times our pocketbook are the things that when they get to the point of undervaluing and/or disrespecting ourselves we need to ask - do we want to stay or move on? Arriving and being at this moment shows how empowered you have really become. It takes emotional maturity through growth that allows ourselves to ask this question and then to take the necessary action. Brava! So often when I am reading for a Tarot client on ZodiacLiveTarot, they are being confronted with this issue. What is often astonishing for me as their reader is the emotional growth that has taken place within the client along with their ability to still be and act as a compassionate, emphatic and forgiving person to the people they have to leave behind. Wow! Sometimes it is our reluctance to believe another person could be so weak in their personality and character that makes us feel we are standing still, waiting - which we are. We often continue hoping our lover or boss will change their approach and attitude. It is their lack of change that often spurns on our reason to finally examine a relationship and what we need to do about it if the conclusion is not one that respects and values us. This is a moment of empowerment! Believing and knowing we have a choice in our own destiny is power! Many times it was the feeling of having no say or voice that starts our thinking towards a new direction. One of the divine dilemmas of being intelligent, feeling individuals is our ability to make decisions. At various points of maturity in our lives, we may make choices based on pure attraction and animal instinct or experience may have taught us other characteristics and insights need to come into our decision making; especially the one honoring ourselves first. Like the season of spring following winter, this moment represents a milestone in a change of life. We all have this type of encounter when we go from teenager into adulthood, or when we get married or divorced. These are examples of how life is a continuing cycle and is never the same again. We can mourn these changes as if we lost a good friend so it is ok to acknowledge a change has taken place and do what is necessary for us to get on track. We need to celebrate the end to stagnant and oppressive conditions and allow new attitudes and mindsets to emerge. We may have even become comfortable in our unhappiness, too afraid to change, but if we can accept and celebrate our new direction the sooner we can enjoy the benefits the change was designed to deliver. I know change can seem frightening, especially if our past has been built around others we are now separated from, but we need to embrace this change or we can get stuck in a yesterday that is no longer possible. God/universe wants you to do this as well! Like the Yellow Brick Road that greets Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz, your new adventure is laid out before you! Will you take these first steps? I think this new you will!
Written By Laura ( Tarot Reader | Life Coach | Counsellor )
April 2016
Dealing With News Of Illness
Without giving away any confidences, this past week I was informed a dear client of mine and ZodiacLiveTarot was battling cancer. They were told they only had several months to make their arrangements and care help was called in. I must honestly admit I burst into tears when told of their plight. My heart was touched. My sincerest emotions were for a person I have never met but have given countless email readings to. A Tarot reading is that intimate between the reader and the client, which over time becomes a friendship. When you connect with a client you can see not only what is taking place in their life but many times their heart and spirit - and our client's was abundant in both. They would also come to recommend countless new people to visit with readers of ZodiacLiveTarot. They felt the readers and the company itself was a good fit for their personality and needs - and we felt the same way about them and their friends. I additionally felt so badly because the person telling me this news was a new client to our service recommended by our ill friend. And as good intentions between good people happens others have reached out to share their story and concern. We all had a good cry! Now it was time to get busy to rally all the talent of the ZodiacLiveTeam for prayers and recovery. I was not disappointed! They rose to the occasion by alerting everyone to send their good will and wishes to our ZodiacLivetarot friend. Everyone I continued to connect with through Tarot readings that knew our friend answered the call as well. Then something fantastic happened. A client who I meet through our ill friend who now has become a good friend as well told me our ill friend now had a fighting chance! That their body is now strong enough to fight to get well. The prognosis went from dire to a light to guide them to a possible positive end. Times are tough in many ways, but when illness strikes those we love and care for - all bets are off. The little stuff no longer matters. It reminds me to embrace this attitude daily so when I need to send my good intentions somewhere they are the most powerful I can make them because they are based on love and the power I know I hold within. Celebrate the good and be grateful for those we love each day will make it easier to do when we could be confronted with rough times. Being supportive and reviewing our daily words and actions to understand whether they heal or harm can help us delivery a strong shoulder, a humble word or grace. Whatever the circumstances we can be ready. So many of us are being asked to love unconditionally, even if we are not receiving the contact or support from others we would like. This is why it is important to start with love of self; others lack of love, words or actions do not need to reflect ours. With our ill friend, they were showing their grace by not wanting to burden others with their news. But with this lot, good intentions are at their core so it is not surprising others reacted with the same. Even if are ill loved ones are seeking privacy, a handwritten note, a warm meal or thoughtful gift can go a long way in telling others you are in are thoughts. Even distance support, is support. If you reading this by visiting the ZodiacLiveTarot site and blog, then post a note on our FaceBook, Twitter or email to let us know if you need our prayers and well wishes because we want to be there for you too!
Written By Laura ( Tarot Reader | Life Coach | Counsellor )
Inner Courage
It is easy to ignore or deny our fears, even to ourselves. When we work to develop courage, it’s important to know ourselves and have a deep understanding of our fears in life. Only by knowing and labelling our feelings we are able to take the first step toward gaining control over them. Most of us find it difficult to have a mental and emotional ability to deal with challenging, and sometimes seemingly impossible circumstances. That’s why courage is considered by many to be one of the most important human virtues. We can only be successful when we empower ourselves with the ability to confront problems. As human beings, it’s completely normal to have fears. The most beautiful thing about courage, it’s that it comes from a place of being afraid, but acting anyway. I believe that being courageous is a habit, and when we learn to control the negative feelings and thoughts, we discover that we’re already much braver than we think we are. Our fears keep us from moving forward with what we want in our lives. We can change our future when we allow ourselves to figure out exactly what power our fear has over our mind and behaviour. Many of our fears are based in false beliefs or catastrophic thinking, that’s why is important to talk back to our negative thoughts or false beliefs, and question them. We all have negative thoughts, but we need to learn to dwell on them. These thoughts and attitudes are draining and if you give in to them, they will become stronger and undermine your confidence and courage. Reinforcing your successes in your mind give less power to your fears. I’ve learned that mindfulness can have a very positive effect in our well being and our ability to be more courageous in life. If you find yourself overwhelmed by fear, meditation and mindfulness can help you to overcome negative thoughts. Just focus on your breathing and take deep breaths. When you feel the negative emotions, detach yourself from it by focusing on more positive thoughts. You can experience peace in regular meditations, in order to find your inner courage. When you connect to the Higher Power, you can feel empowered to do anything you want to do. But, be prepared to step out of your comfort zone: doing something you don't normally do helps you cope with the unexpected, which is where fear often springs from. Facing your fears help you grow, and move towards the positive side in life, allowing you to be able to change your negative attitude. Self knowledge helps us to label our emotions and develop self-understanding and emotional intelligence. Remember that running from your fears never improves the way you feel. Empower yourself with the feeling that you know without a doubt that you deserve to have everything you want, and you have no doubts that you are good enough or worthy enough. Fear holds us back and keep us stuck in a life of mediocrity. Dare to leave your comfort zone and take some risks in order to move forward. Remember that being positive about your future is possible when you learn to love yourself more and you are willing to take risks to achieve your personal and professional goals. Focusing on your positive traits and not comparing yourself to others is essential to build your confidence and courage. Realise your true nature, learn to look at the difficult areas of your life with honesty, compassion and bravery. When you live out of fear you are always trembling inside, and you are continuously in a state of misery and worry. Start looking at the things you do from a good perspective, and re-evaluate the things in the past that had an impact on how you see things in the present. We need to trust ourselves in order to be courageous. Once we learn to trust our own abilities, it will lead to self confidence. Have faith, don’t lose hope for a better tomorrow, and ask for spiritual guidance. Trust that whatever happens in the future, you can find a way to deal with it. Surround yourself with positive people, because negative and discouraging comments from people around us can have long lasting effects if we let them affect us. With courage, we can face our problems and realise the areas in our lives that need healing. It helps us to deal and identify the source of our demons. Remember that you can build confidence in any aspect of your life. The secret of happiness is freedom, and the secret of freedom is courage.
